You can’t tell your story because you think it isn’t as bad as someone else. Maybe you can’t tell you story because you believe it’s too ugly. I ask you this…. if you are stabbed in the heart are you any less damaged by how you were stabbed? I don’t think so. After years and years of therapy I have witnessed first-hand… The pain is all the same. The damage comes from how we were conditioned to think about it. The healing comes from coming together and talking about it.